As we have seen now a days cultural values
do not get primary values so we should promote our natural culture and moral
values is also not get preferences but for better education we should aim of
moulding personality in the right way.
Response : There are two problems which
cause great worry to our educationists the problem of religious and moral
instruction in a land of many faiths and the problem arising out of a large variety
of languages. Taking up the education of
children we see that they should be trained to love one another, to be kin and
helpful to all, to be tender to the lower animals and to observe and think
right. The task f teaching them how to read and write and to count and to
calculate is important, but it should not make us lose sight of the primary aim
of moulding personality in the right way. For this, it is necessary to call
into aid, culture, tradition and religion. But in our country we have in the same school, to look after boys and
girls born in different faiths and belongings to families that live diverse ways of life and follow different
forms of worship associated with different denominations of religion. It will
not to tread the easy path of evading the difficulty by attending solely to
physical culture and intellectual education. We have to evolve a suitable
technique and method for serving the spiritual needs of school children
professing different faiths. We should thereby promote an atmosphere of mutual respect, a fuller
understanding and helpful co-operation
among the different communities in our
society. Again we must remain one people and we have therefore to give basic
training in our schools to speak and understand . more languages than one and to appreciate and
respect the different religious prevailing in India . It is not right for us in
India to be dissuaded from this by considerations as to overtaking the young
mind. What is necessary must be done and it is not in fact too great a burden.
any attempt to do away with or steamroll the difference through governmental
coercion and indirect pressure would be as futile as it would be unwise ,any
ion of a single way of life and form of worship on all children or neglect of
as section of the pupils in this respect or barren secularisation will lead to
conflict between school and home life which is harmful. On the other hand if we
give due recognition to the different prevailing faiths in the educational
institutions by organising suitable facilities for religious teaching for boys
and gals of all communities this may itself serve as a broadening influence of
great national values.
What is it that enables some people to gain
whatever goal they set for themselves while others do not succeed ? What makes some men winners in the world and
others the losers ? if u want to win, we must find the right answer to this
very important question. Are there certain qualities or techniques which a
person can use to achieve success regardless of his goal?
Response :To confirm this we must carefully
study the lives of successful men of the past as well as the present day. No
doubt there are certain characteristics which are commonly found among all
these great people. But an academic or college education is not necessarily one
of them. Such an education perhaps could be an asset. let us remainder this. college education by itself is neither
good nor bad. It all depends on what use you put it to. The important thing is,
if you happen to possess it you can use it to advantage. If u do not have it,
there is no real cause to worry. Many have succeeded not only in India but also
in other industrially advanced countries having attained great success without
college education. For instance, Thomas Edison had taken only three month’s
schooling. The great Abraham Lincoln was practically self-educated. Benjamin
franklin did not attend the school at all. The Wright Brothers were not
scientists but bicycle mechanics by their basic profession. Success also does
not necessarily depend upon one’s birth, environment, wealth etc. H.G. Wells
was born in poverty and had to fight ill health continually. The study of the
great , successful, self-made men all over the world, whether of the past or of
the present, spotlights very important common factors. They knew how to get
along successfully with others. They knew how to sell themselves to strangers
and friends, to their employers and employees, to their neighbours, families,
in fact to every one with whom they came into contact daily. They knew how to
sell ideas, knowledge, talent and services. They knew how to get along with
men, influence and motivate them. Success depends to a great extent on what you
do with your ideas, talents or gifts. Invariably it is not what you do about
what you know. It is not what you have, but what is done about it that spells
the difference between success and failure.
What is a true compliment ? is
compliments promotes and motivates us to
get the greatest achievements of human race . compliments make us happy
everyone desires and love to have it . but how ?
Response :Real praise, the sincere
compliment is probably the most useful social tool of all. It’s the valued gold
coin of our conversation. Yet today, it is in danger of losing its brightness.
For it is greatly misused and not properly exchanged. It’s one
benefits both giver and receiver.
Once a painter and his young assistant
were painting our house. The older man was wearing shiny new shoes. As the man
started skilfully painting , my
father-in-law, said to the boy ,”son, when you can show up on the job to paint
a house, wearing new shoes, you will be the master of your trade.” The painter
smiled and did the best job. We all like to have our sense of personal worth
built up or pointed out. And when one expert adds to another’s sense of dignity and speaks favourably of his
skill, he is offering a compliment of the highest and rarest kind. A compliment
differs from flattery in that it is
objective and given without thought of gain. Flattery is often merely lip
service or excessive praise given for motives other than express. The greatest
efforts of the human race have always resulted from the love of praise. This should
be inspire in childhood. The wise parent makes it a point to compliment a child
who deserves it. A woman I know has a 12 year old son who considers washing
dishes for his mother a great honour. One night, while washing a large dish, it
slipped and crashed on the floor. Then his mother said ,” you know , Robert ,
of all the time you have washed the dishes for me, this is the first time you
dropped one”. Anxiety left the boy’s face and he smiled. As one psychologist advises ,”praise virtue and you
will find few vices to criticise.” There is an art in this giving of
compliments. Thus the good compliments is always to the point and timing is
important. Don’t wait too long to tell a person what a good talk he gave or how
well he cut your grass. But don’t do it immediately when he is expecting it either. We ait. Then
when he thinks you may have forgotten ,pass the praise. Confidence, it has been
said, is the greatest gift that one human can give to another. But that does
not mean we should be wasteful with our compliments. Rather we should count
them carefully remembering that a good compliment has a greater purchasing
power than money , that no one is too busy or successful to receive word of praise.
Egotism is the commonest fault of mankind.
How it can be ? what is it ?
Egotism is the most common fault of
mankind. Product of the perfectly
natural desire to display oneself, egotism, which is an exaggerated form
of self-display, can take such a variety of shapes that it is not always easy
to discern. Beyond any shadow of doubt , however , it is a personality defect
that ought to be constantly hunted down the scotched, for it impairs the personality
, and frustrates all efforts at self-improvement. This is the easily
recognizable form of egotism that is evidenced in the person who continually
takes of his own affairs. You must all have met the kind of man who is never
happy save when recounting his exploits and experiences in life; and whatever
subject he may begin discussing you feel quite sure that he will sooner or
later arrive at himself. although such a
blatant kind of egotism is apparent to the onlooker, it may not be so easy for
the egotist himself to recognise his fault. But if he can put on his guard and
it behaves each one of us to examine carefully whether we are entirely immune
from this canker there is always hope of cure. On the other hand, there is a
type not uncommon which evidences its egotism by affecting a humility that is
certainly not felt , and ostentatiously avoiding the use of the pronoun “I” in
speech and in writing. Such affectation is an infallible sign of egotism. It is
all the more reprehensible because it is deliberately assumed by the person.
Next we come to the individual who holds strong opinions and insists on forcing
these opinions on to others. he constantly lays down the law, he knows and he
jolly well insists that you shall accept of this conduct , although it is not so easy to remove such a
defect, for a person of this kind is generally possessed of a fiery temper but
again it can be done and recognition of this defect is the first step towards
its cure. Egotist will glibly appeal to
duty; he will continually find fault with another’s way of doing things and
point out the immense superiority of his method. In his eyes , he is always
right. So we should make sure whether we are not one of that kind and get rid
of this problem of egotism.
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